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Letter

Abuse hidden in darkness: damaging trust

Date posted: 3 Sep 2024

Dear Editor,

I could not agree more with your correspondent on hidden abuse (July en). It is the cover-up, lies and deceit that follow the original abuse which damages our faith and trust in the Christian church most.

Jonathan Fletcher facing nine charges

Jonathan Fletcher facing nine charges

Nicola Laver Nicola Laver

Former vicar Jonathan Fletcher has been charged with eight counts of indecent assault and one of grievous bodily harm. The offences were allegedly committed between 1973 and 1999.

Fletcher, 81, is due to appear at Kingston Crown Court on 7 August. The Metropolitan Police has urged any victims of abuse to come forward and speak with specialist officers.

Letter

Abuse among Christians

Date posted: 1 May 2024

Dear Editor,

Thank you for continuing to highlight spiritual and emotional abuse in church organisations. The anonymous letter in this month’s edition, (en April 2024 p.7), has prompted me to write in for the first time. 

Bullying, abuse of power, threats and exclusion: Why evangelicals need new C of E structures

Bullying, abuse of power, threats and exclusion: Why evangelicals need new C of E structures

John Dunnett John Dunnett

It is still being assumed by those pursuing change in the Church of England that we can simply ‘agree to disagree’ over matters of same-sex marriage and blessings. In practice, this means that the permission not to use the Prayers of Love and Faith is a sufficient provision and that either no or minimum structural rearrangement is necessary.

This, however, remains a theological ostrich with its head in the sand. How can the Church of England simultaneously say that same-sex marriage and blessings are both sinful and holy? And as someone who holds to a globally acknowledged Biblical position on human sexuality, my conscience will not allow me to simply accept a Church of England that blesses sin as if it were holiness.

Supporting survivors of  abuse in churches
safeguarding briefing

Supporting survivors of abuse in churches

Jules Loveland Jules Loveland

Content warning: This article contains information about responding to reports of abuse which some readers may find triggering. Survivors of abuse in churches face unique challenges when it comes to receiving support. Their experiences teach the church how to respond better and prevent abuse.

We think of churches as safe places, mostly because of their teaching of ‘love thy neighbour’. But history shows abuse can happen in these communities. It’s crucial that the church learns to respond appropriately to abuse. Failure to do so causes further harm to survivors, and puts others at risk.

Mandatory abuse reporting ‘in focus’

Mandatory abuse reporting ‘in focus’

Iain Taylor Iain Taylor

(cid:31)e ‘not guilty’ verdict handed down to Hillsong Church founder Brian Houston – accused of concealing the crimes of his abuser father – brings mandatory reporting ‘into sharp focus,’ says a leading UK safeguarding expert.

Speaking exclusively to Evangelicals Now, Simon Bass of Church Safeguarding Consultancy said: ‘Many will have been shocked that Houston was acquitted, given how critical the Australian Royal Commission report back in 2014 was. The UK’s Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse has called for the failure to report abuse to become a criminal offence. Such a law would undoubtedly encompass church leaders’.

Pain after report  on Mike Pilavachi

Pain after report on Mike Pilavachi

Iain Taylor Iain Taylor

Churches and Christian organisations have spoken of their sadness and pain as the official report into well-known charismatic leader Mike Pilavachi said he displayed coercive and controlling behaviour at the church and had inappropriate relationships.

His actions included massaging young male interns and wrestling young men as he used his ‘spiritual authority to control people’.

Letter

Issues around abuse

Date posted: 1 Jan 2023

Dear Editor,

As someone who witnessed explicit sexual abuse at a Christian boys’ camp in my youth, I’m not entirely surprised at the degree of abuse of all kinds mentioned by Dr Langberg in the en interview with Rebecca Chapman (November 2022).

Abuse guide launch

www.challengingleaders.uk

A new resource on spiritual abuse and pastoral malpractice has just been launched at an event in Westminster Palace.

The book Challenging Leaders: Preventing and Investigating Allegations of Pastoral Malpractice is being produced by Affinity and is due to be published by Christian Focus Publications in March 2023.

Welsh tackle abuse scandals horror

Welsh tackle abuse scandals horror

Rob James

Welsh Baptist ministers spent some time recently focusing on the pressing issue of ‘Abuse of power in the local church’.

Phil Swann (see photo) of Llanelli Evangelical Church opened up a topic which the Baptist Union of Wales admits is not often talked about but ‘can do great harm’ to both ministers and members. ‘Recent public cases have drawn attention to how church leaders need be more aware of the potential abuses of power within the local church and the damaging effect this can have on those caught up in such situations,’ it said.

Rethinking patronage to prevent abuse

Rethinking patronage to prevent abuse

Duncan Forbes

Duncan has previously very movingly shared his own experience of being abused (August 2021 en). This is a highly complex issue that has caused a great deal of suffering to many people. en continues to seek to provide a forum for us all to learn as broadly as possible from these sinful and shameful actions. Our foremost thoughts and prayers must be with the survivors and victims.

‘I like the things you write on Twitter but I can’t like them publicly because I’d lose my job.’

Tipping points: loveless marriages & abusive churches

Tipping points: loveless marriages & abusive churches

Karen Soole Karen Soole

en continues to seek to provide a forum for us all to learn as broadly as possible from sinful and shameful abusive actions. Our foremost thoughts and prayers must be with the survivors and victims.

It is the straw that broke the camel’s back. The final straw is small; it barely weighs anything but, added to the burden already carried, it crushes.

Abuse survivor bishop commends new resources; others express reservations

en staff

An abuse survivor who is now a bishop says new resources from the Church of England Evangelical Council (CEEC) produced after recent scandals should ‘help churches engage’ with the issue.

Published in the wake of revelations about Jonathan Fletcher and Steve Timmis, the resources include a film, some ‘culture review questions’ and a ‘liturgy of lament’ – all of which can be found on the CEEC website.

ReNew: abuse & healthy church

ReNew

The annual conference of ReNew for conservative evangelicals in the Church of England has been held in-person again, after a virtual session last year due to the pandemic.

The event tackled issues of spiritual abuse following recent high-profile cases and the publication of the Thirtyone:eight report into Jonathan Fletcher’s time at Emmanuel, Wimbledon. It also focused on ‘establishing healthy churches’ – the theme for the gathering.

Abuse is serious; we need facts not polemic to fight it

David Robertson David Robertson

The news from Australia made it all the way to the Church Times in the UK. And the headline was stark and clear – ‘Australia: Anglican women more likely to suffer domestic violence.’ (Church Times 18 June 2021).

Given that many people only read the headline, given that the report on which it was based was commissioned by the Anglican Church in Australia and given the ‘facts’ produced in the article – the implication was clear: those who are taught Biblical values are more likely to abuse and be abused.

I was abused at school. Here’s what I’ve learnt.

I was abused at school. Here’s what I’ve learnt.

Duncan Forbes

I was abused in school in the 1980s and 1990s. Eleven staff/clergy have since been imprisoned, and many more should have been.

So it’s a big case study from which I’ve personally learned the following about abusive cultures and survivor experiences:

‘Nettle’ of abusive leadership grasped

‘Nettle’ of abusive leadership grasped

Jess Coles

The abuse of power and position by some in Christian leadership was the subject of Living Leadership’s most recent Ministry Masterclass.

Entitled ‘Powerful Leaders?’, Marcus Honeysett, Executive Director of the charity, tackled this challenging topic and outlined the warning signs leaders can be aware of in their own lives and ministries.

A	book	for	abused,	abusers	and	all	of	us

A book for abused, abusers and all of us

Karen Soole Karen Soole

Book Review CREAKING ON THE STAIRS: Finding faith in God through childhood abuse

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Lamenting abuse
Pastoral Care

Lamenting abuse

Jo Jackson

In the recent past, disturbing reports of abuse perpetrated by leaders of churches and Christian organisations have come to light.

These abuses have taken place primarily against individuals who have been profoundly wounded in ways that are hard to comprehend. These reports also reveal deeply destructive church cultures that require careful and honest reflection and action.

I am a victim of spiritual abuse. It’s taken 15  years to realise

I am a victim of spiritual abuse. It’s taken 15 years to realise

A victim of spiritual abuse – but not at the hands of Fletcher or Smyth – shares her firsthand experience:

I am a victim of spiritual abuse. It’s taken 15 years after the events to recognise this – and only then because of recent events.

Escaping spiritual abuse

Escaping spiritual abuse

Steven Hanna

Book Review ESCAPING THE MAZE OF SPIRITUAL ABUSE

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This is what Justin Welby said to me about survivors of abuse

Guest Columnist

Christian broadcaster, Anne Atkins, writes:

There was a recent article in the Spectator entitled 'Welby’s Gatekeeper'. Most of it a pretty harmless romp through the career of David Porter, Lambeth Chief of Staff. 

Ravi Zacharias: ‘Harrowing dark night of those…abused’

Ravi Zacharias: ‘Harrowing dark night of those…abused’

Eternity News Australia / Washington Post / Twitter / New York Times

A former leader in the ministry of Ravi Zacharias, the disgraced apologist who engaged in ‘sexting, unwanted touching, spiritual abuse, and rape’ according to a new report, has spoken of the ‘harrowing dark night of those… abused’ by the evangelist.

The former head of Ravi Zacharias Ministry in Australia, Dan Paterson, said: ‘I feel heavy-hearted for those who loved and looked up to Ravi, who now have wake up to a dark reality that months ago seemed so unthinkable. May their faith be purified by the Lord as it comes under fire, knowing that a smouldering wick he will not snuff out.’

Church Society investigating  ‘serious allegations of  bullying and abuse’

Church Society investigating ‘serious allegations of bullying and abuse’

Church Society

The Church of England evangelical grouping Church Society says it is investigating ‘very serious and wide-ranging allegations of bullying and abuse’ made about some of its staff and council members.

In a statement issued as en was going to print, Revd Andrew Towner, chair of the Church Society council, and Dr Ros Clarke, Associate Director, said: ‘Some of you may be aware that Church Society, along with some of its staff and Council members, has been the subject of some serious allegations made on social media.

Abuse: warnings as scandals unfold

Abuse: warnings as scandals unfold

EN

Evangelicals are facing a period of soul searching, heartache and challenge as three separate scandals unfolded.

The release of a review into lessons to be learnt from Jonathan Fletcher’s time as minister at Emmanuel Church, Wimbledon, was expected at any time.

A safe church is a transparent one

A safe church is a transparent one

Carl Chambers

Carl Chambers argues that victims of abuse have been failed by churches too easily covering things up

In 2015, Matthew Syed published a book called Black Box Thinking. He contrasts the culture of the airline industry with the health service in the US and UK.

World Vision among abuse allegations

Evangelical Focus

More than 50 women accused aid workers with large humanitarian NGOs of sexual abuse during the 2018-2020 Ebola crisis in the Democratic Republic of Congo, including some from the Christian group World Vision.

Several women said they were forced to have sex in exchange for a job, or to avoid the termination of a contract. It was reported that this kind of abuse is common in countries where there is a culture of sexual exploitation.

Letter

Abuse: our experience

Date posted: 1 Nov 2020

Dear Editor,

Since reading the Independent Inquiry into the Child Sexual Abuse in Cof E churches, I became aware of how much the report mirrored my daughter’s experience. The difference was that this happened in an evangelical church. Therefore, I believe this report is valuable for all churches and needs to be read thoughtfully.

C of E abuse

Sky News

Nearly 400 people in positions of trust within the Church of England have been convicted of sexual offences against children since the 1940s, a damning report has found.

The Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse found the Church failed to protect children and young people from sexual predators within its ranks and instead created a culture where abusers could hide.

How do church leaders  become spiritual abusers?

How do church leaders become spiritual abusers?

John Benton

Spiritual abuse by church leaders can be deeply damaging to those who experience it. Some are ‘scarred for life’ by what happens to them.

A working definition of spiritual abuse would be something like this: ‘Spiritual abuse is a form of emotional and psychological abuse. It is characterised by a systematic pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour in a religious context. This abuse may include manipulation and exploitation; enforced accountability, censorship of decision making, requirements for secrecy and silence, coercion to conform, control through the misuse of Scripture, requirements of obedience through a suggestion that the leadership has some kind of ‘divine’ position, isolation as a means of punishment, and superiority and elitism.’

Why you must speak up

Why you must speak up

John Benton

Abuse of power is a hot topic these days. And church leaders are able to misuse their authority just as much as anyone else. We believe ‘all have sinned and fall short…’.

In the congregational form of church government (see Matthew 18.15-20), the church meeting acts as the final court of appeal. The elders, or leaders, have a certain authority in the church (Heb. 13.17), but it is an authority subject to the word of God and to the church. Hence it is the gathered church which appoints elders and to whom they must answer if they go astray (1 Tim. 5.19, 20). So the church meeting provides a mechanism for checking and balancing the leadership’s power. It is, I suppose, similar to the House of Lords, which can return Parliamentary Bills to the Commons with the message to ‘think again’.