‘Unspeakable heartbreak’: parenting a prodigal child in a ministry home
Sadly, some of our children don’t come to Jesus in repentance and faith but turn away in hostile rebellion.
A cocktail of external social influences can mix with internal trauma, hormones, and indwelling sin to stir up hostility to parents in general and Christianity in particular. Whilst we still love them dearly, such children bring us unspeakable heartbreak. And, in a ministry home, we and our children have the added pressure of having our congregation watching us. We feel the heaviness of our responsibilities to both our children and our church. O Lord, help us!
Christian marriage
Anon
Date posted: 1 Jul 2020
Dear Editor,
I have been reading much of the June
2020 issue of en today, especially as I am
‘shut
in’ by
the
issues
surrounding
the
Covid-19 virus. I was interested to see how
several letters and articles have provoked us
to think again about matters that we have
taken for granted. Many of these are matters
that brothers and sisters in other countries
have had to live with because of the environ-ment (physical and spiritual) in which they
live. We should be able to pray for them
more intelligently.
Too late?
Anon
Date posted: 1 Jun 2020
Dear Sir,
When I was in my early twenties, I was
brought under the sound of the gospel by
a Christian friend and ‘prayed the prayer’ of acceptance and commitment to Christ.
When nothing much happened, I was told
to trust faith and not my own feelings. When
I understood the gospel better, I realised that
this had been a false conversion, because I
was continuing in sin and had no personal
knowledge of Christ – let alone a heartfelt
love for Him. I must therefore have acted
emotionally, partly to please my friend, and
without understanding
the nature of, or
counting the cost of, true discipleship.