We like things to be clear. When we ask questions, we want definite answers.
When faced with puzzles – pastoral or personal – we crave unambiguous solutions. It is an understandable desire. Uncertainty is uncomfortable – it unbalances us, and we don’t like that. Clear, definite answers restore our sense of order and calm.
Which can make Jesus hard to handle. Because, all too often, direct answers are not what he gives. Should we pay taxes to Caesar? Instead of a simple yes or no, we get that famously enigmatic statement: ‘give to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s’ (Matt. 22:21). John the Baptist’s disciples ask: ‘Are you the one to come or should we expect someone else?’ Again the answer is indirect: an allusion to Isaiah 35 and an assurance that those who do ‘not stumble on account of me’ will be blessed. Who is greatest in the kingdom of heaven? Jesus presents a child and tells the disciples to be like him (Matt.18:1-5). How many times must we forgive? Jesus offers an obscure number and a parable on forgiveness. (Matt.18:21-35). He rarely answers questions head on.
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