When you enter into the world of ‘dating’ older Christian singles, who are there by age (over 30 years), or divorce, or widowhood, you enter into an adventure of the heart.
Often it is not an adventure you hoped for, not a world that you desired to visit, but a tough reality to face. It can be desolate heartbreak country where you hide your heart to be safe, but occasionally venture forth bravely, risking rejection, hurt and disappointment.
All in the hope of the heart to find a soul mate in order to move on to a new, different world. After all, although marriage is not the ultimate goal of life, it is a normal and God-intended state for us (Genesis 2.18).