Leaders don’t say ‘sorry’?

John Benton  |  Comment
Date posted:  1 May 2020
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Leaders don’t say ‘sorry’?

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Recently there have been situations in church leaderships of which I am aware, that have made me cringe to the roots of my boots.

There are elders who have fallen out with each other and won’t be reconciled. There are elders who have sidelined other leaders. There are leadership teams that have truly blundered in showing partiality to their friends. Others have ridden roughshod over procedures laid down in the church constitution, but would rather bluff their way through than own up to making a mistake. All this can put the very unity of a congregation in jeopardy. But on they go. ‘Sorry seems to be the hardest word,’ sang that great theologian (?) Elton John.

Why?

Why is it that church leaders find it so difficult to put up their hands and to say ‘Sorry – we got it wrong?’

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